I approached a 2 set with two HB 7's, a blonde in a pink one-piece dress and a brunette in sliver one-piece dress. I started the conversation with the Date a Short Guy Opener and I received some good feedback, they were laughing and I found out one of them was a lesbian. This provided me with some light kino as they got into it when I asked the second question of the opener, then I asked them if they were best friends and transitioned into the best friends test. It goes down hill from here. After I finished the best friend test and started to explain the principles behind it, the blonde girl goes "You know everything your saying is bullshit right?" … Shit! I had heard from these scenarios from posts in the community but when it happened I really wasn't ready for it. It turns out that the blonde has a Masters in Psychology and she knows that none of the Non-verbal communication stuff has never been proven by scientific fact and is all simple anecdotal evidence. Afterwards my primitive "danger fight or flight mode" kicked in and I kindly ejected myself by saying Nice to meet you, have a good night. But then they dragged me back into the conversation by saying "you know that question you asked us at the beginning about your friend, is that serious question or do you just ask that to everyone?" I was like fuck fuck fuck, even the opener didn't hold ground, I lied and said yeah that was true - I don't they bought it for a second, I left with my canned ejection line and I felt that that couldn't have gone any worse but I also felt fascinated by the way it went.
What I learnt from this experience:
•You can never imagine the conversation beforehand so just calm down and live in the moment
•If she suspects you, BE HONEST and say yeah that was a conversation starter, you could even tell them about the Game
•Keep your frame
•Stay in set for an added 5 minutes after you start to feel uncomfortable
Donatello
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